Banishing a Ghost
The wife of a man became very sick. On her deathbed, she said to him, "I love you
so much! I don't want to leave you, and I don't want you to betray me. Promise that
you will not see any other women once I die, or I will come back to haunt you."
For several months after her death, the husband did avoid other women,
but then he met someone and fell in love. On the night that they were engaged to
be married, the ghost of his former wife appeared to him. She blamed him for not
keeping the promise, and every night thereafter she returned to taunt him. The ghost
would remind him of everything that transpired between him and his fiancee that day,
even to the point of repeating, word for word, their conversations. It upset him
so badly that he couldn't sleep at all.
Desperate, he sought the advice of a Zen master who lived near the village. "This
is a very clever ghost," the master said upon hearing the man's story. "It is!" replied
the man. "She remembers every detail of what I say and do. It knows everything!"
The master smiled, "You should admire such a ghost, but I will tell you what to do the
next time you see it."
That night the ghost returned. The man responded just as the master had advised. "You
are such a wise ghost," the man said, "You know that I can hide nothing from you.
If you can answer me one question, I will break off the engagement and remain single
for the rest of my life." "Ask your question," the ghost replied. The man scooped up
a handful of beans from a large bag on the floor, "Tell me exactly how many beans
there are in my hand."
At that moment the ghost disappeared and never returned.
People's reactions to this story:
"Ghosts are just human and can't know or do anything that a human can't."
"No one knows everything. Not even a spirit. You can be wise in some ways, but not
in all ways."
"The ghost kept coming back because the man was always impressed by how it seemed
to know everything. It had power over him. But when he finally stood up to it, and
challenged it, the ghost disappeared forever."
"The ghost is actually a part of the man. So it couldn't know anything that the man
himself didn't know."
"The ghost comes from the man's own mind. He created it. It is his own guilt that
came back to haunt him."
"The reason something haunts us is because we keep our attention on it. When we move on beyond it it will disappear."
"To me, this story just shows that souls have memories, but not enlightenment."
"I don't like the ending. I read the story with high expectations, but felt let down
"Why didn't the ghost know that the man had seen a Zen master?"
"If the wife really loved the husband, how could she subject him to such a promise?"
"Everything the ghost knew didn't amount to a handful of beans!"
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